Well,
there’s the whole “money doesn’t buy happiness” theme, with Richard Cory going
home and putting a bullet in his head. And there are the addictions – “sex
addiction” not least among them. (Are there happy marriages among the very rich,
or is the charismatic power of wealth to attract nubile young women just too
much for any man to resist?)
I went
online and Googled “rich people’s problems” and found an Atlantic Monthly article from April
2011, titled
“Secret Fears of the Super Rich”. In the article, Graeme Wood reports that in a survey of very wealthy donors to charities, "The respondents turn out to be a generally dissatisfied lot,
whose money has contributed to deep anxieties involving love, work, and family.
Indeed, they are frequently dissatisfied even with their sizable fortunes. Most
of them still do not consider themselves financially secure; for that, they say,
they would require on average one-quarter more wealth than they currently
possess.”
The
average net worth of those surveyed was $78 million.
Apparently, according to the article,
being financially secure means being “wealthy enough to ensure that in any
catastrophe short of Armageddon, they will still be dining on Chateaubriand
while the rest of us are spit-roasting rats over trash-can fires.” I suppose
$78 million might not be enough for that.
There
is a tug of war between necessity, often caused by scarcity, which spurs us to
actions (like building a career) that feel fulfilling; and ease, which comes
from abundance, but which can make us complacent. You can have too much of either,
though apparently most people are much more sympathetic to the woes of
necessity than to those of ease. For example, in one of the more than 100 comments
following the Atlantic article, Nick
Olson wrote:
- To paraphrase Louis C.K., "Rich people don't know what it's like to be poor, they can't even imagine it, but every poor person knows what it's like to be rich. You know why? Because they think about it every second of the day." I'm sorry, the handful of problems of the rich must seem like a lot to them because they can't imagine it any other way, but they should rest assured that they aren't even close the the (sic) problems of the millions of poor in this country and billions of poor in the world. How about going to work every day hurt and sick and coming home without enough money to properly feed your family? Feeling inadequate as a parent? Feeling helpless and out of control of your life? Knowing that if you get sick - really sick - you probably won't fully recover and certainly won't receive adequate treatment and your children will be left in destitution?
- I'm being unkind. No one cares about the problems of the rich - that must be difficult to deal with psychologically. Oh - I forgot, this is America - no one gives a ***t about the problems of the poor either.
- The truth is that - barring those below the poverty level - everyone in America is rich. If you live in a warm house, sleep in a warm bed, have never gone to sleep hungry, have the time you need to study and rest, but have a ***tty cell phone and out-of-date computer, you are ****ing rich. Once we cover our basic needs, the rest is vanity. Happiness comes from strong personal relationships and a sense of purpose in our occupation, that's it. If the rich can't find these things in their absurd levels of wealth, they can go **** themselves, because it's much harder to find them in soul-crushing poverty.
I agree
with Olson that you have enough money when you have food, clothing,
shelter, etc. and you don’t want more simply for the sake of being one of the
people who has more (eg "the Joneses"). You want more because it is a worthy challenge to increase
the ratio of ease to necessity, abundance to scarcity. And perhaps if you can
do that in your own life, maybe you can then share some of that abundance with
others.
I’m
fairly sure that one can be rich enough, though apparently no one above my income bracket seems to agree.
I am definitely sure that one can be poor, which could be defined as not being
rich enough (just as being fat could be defined as not being thin enough), though
maybe there’s some nuance here that I am missing. Again, the problem is with
the word “enough”.
Like Olson, I feel
like I am rich enough in one sense. I have plenty to eat. I am warm in the
winter. We have proper clothing, cars, computers, ice skates, and other stuff.
We do have some debt, though, that it would be nice to be rid of. We drive
older cars. The tractor we just bought is thirty years old. But we are fine,
and moving ahead slowly. Does this mean we are rich enough? Is having all of these
bounties equivalent to being rich? I’m sure the Cambodian mother feeding her
kids red ant soup cooked over a campfire would say so. But how can I be considered rich when others are so
much richer? I know I am thin, because those thinner than I am are edging into
starvation, anorexia. But those richer than I am are perfectly healthy (aside
from the angst described in the Atlantic),
traveling among their many homes in their private jets, yachts, and
helicopters…
We
outsiders to that world can say they are too rich and that it warps their
morals. It’s obvious because they don’t even interact with this world, and they
do everything to avoid paying perfectly reasonable taxes. There was even a story last November about how some rich boat owners were going to cancel the annual holiday boat parade they put on for the community because their dock fees were being raised from the absurdly low $100 per year to 52.5 cents per square foot. Clearly they are
corrupt, morally bankrupt, heartless. But is this just sour grapes? Wouldn’t I
be the same if I had all that money? Don’t I gleefully look forward to tax
refunds? (I don't want to give that money to the government either!) Does being rich depend on others being poor? Is the word “rich” only
meaningful relative to being not rich, or is there some absolute measure of
richness?
One
timeworn economic belief is that rich people's vices and overindulgence benefit
the economy by providing jobs for the poor – as servants and yacht builders,
probably. Economist Simon Patten, however, back in 1885, thought that there was
no real reason for the class structure to persist now that there is enough
production that everyone can have enough, if those who overindulge now can be
persuaded that it is in their interest to slow down and share the wealth. I'm not sure how that could happen (and Ayn Rand would rise from the dead if it did!), but Nick Olson’s “****ing Scandinavian-style,
progressive income tax” would certainly be a start.
I like your basic threshold definition--food, roof, car, computer, cell-phone. I'd add some modicum of health care. Beyond that, it's all internally driven--a decision by the individual as to what is enough.
ReplyDeleteAstonishingly, it seems that that is all it is.
Of course, that doesn't give us much in the way of guidance. But it is an empowering realization, if you can believe it.
I agree it can be empowering, but I also wonder how other people's definitions of "enough" affect our own.
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